What can I do to improve myself during this trying time?

Good Morning! Here is My Monday Morning Blog!

Things have been a little crazy in the world lately, huh? Lots of people either being laid off or losing their jobs, teaching their kids at home, and trying to figure out how to cook (since going out to eat isn’t an option at this point). It hits me every time I go to the grocery store to see those empty shelves. I know some people hoarding certain items, but some of it is due to people picking up that one extra, so they can shelter in place a day or two longer before having to come back for something else.

Some news from my personal front, I was furloughed from my “day job” last Friday. So, I’m entering a new place for me to be. Filing for unemployment, figuring out what our family budget is going to look like in hopefully the short term, and deciding whether my dreams for my own company will have to go on hold, again, due to a possible financial strain. I’ve been doing a lot of journaling about my goals and dreams; looking for some definite direction.

Faith things will get better is a hard thing to hold onto sometimes. I will say, I’ve gotten better at it over the years, mainly through experience showing itself and accepting the idea things always work themselves out. Maybe not the way we want them to; sometimes worse than we expect, but sometimes better.

When working in aircraft scheduling, sometimes you have mechanicals, sometimes it’s weather, and sometimes it’s an unexpected air traffic control hold. We don’t have any control over any of these events, but are forced to work through all possible solutions to accommodate our client’s travel plans. In these stressful situations, I’ve learned, it’s about providing options to choose from and not saying there is nothing we can do. Again, sometimes these options are worse than what they want, but sometimes better. But in the end, they are options and when presented the client gets to choose what is best for them.

Thinking about making things better for me, I scrolled through my Facebook feed, which I’m sure many of you are doing right now, and found a free online course I thought would help me get my business and book selling back on my main drive. I’m currently working through the Limitless Entrepreneur – The Digital Retreat.

Melyssa Griffin is a great presenter and motivator who I enjoyed working with throughout this course. The content is helping me get excited about selling my books and creating new ideas for my own business. One of the first things she talks about is a Scarcity versus an Abundance mindset. Scarcity mindset says there is never enough. You must hold onto what you have otherwise you are going to lose it. In an Abundance mindset there will always be more. I’ll get more than I bargained for and seeing a more positive outcome. I see the scarcity mindset as a realistic mindset (basing the belief on what is happening in the here and now and scared of what may happen in the future). Where the abundance mindset is more faith driven, believing that things will get better in the future.

When I look at my things will work out theory I talked about above, it works well with the abundance mindset. But I seem to have myself tangled up in more of a scarcity mindset, especially now with my furlough. But as I work to recognize my scarcity mindset fears, my view of the abundance mindset options is helping me see the ideas I am generating for my business are good ideas. I may be able to act on some of them now and others may be implemented into my current business plan so I am ready when things get better. By having more faith in myself and life will help me to take some risks with my ideas, and have faith that things will work out in the end. Be sure to stay tuned in to see what could happen.

What I ask you to do is take a good look at your Facebook feed or email and see if there’s a course that could help improve your mindset right now. Maybe it is learning how to knit, or organize things in your house, or printing pages to color. These activities will not only distract you from what seems to be going wrong right now, it may also help you make some forward progress on projects which have been just sitting stale on your plate. I’ll be excited to hear about what you decided to do. Please let me know in the comments below.

Have a great week!

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